Much emphasis has been placed in my generation on the need to raise boys up into manhood. There has been a call to “turn the hearts of the fathers to their sons”; for men to teach their sons how to be men, and for other men to fill in for those who have no fathers, or whose fathers abdicate. This is a beautiful thing. But it raises the question, what does that mean? Being strong and brave? Kind and gentle? Knowing the Scriptures? The problem is, some people are automatically